More sales conversations means more conversions

How to Turn Conversations into Clients (Without Sounding Salesy)

Let’s face it, selling can feel icky when you’re not sure what to say or how to say it.

Maybe you’re worried about being pushy. Maybe your voice shakes a bit when you quote your price. Or maybe you just avoid “the selling bit” altogether and hope people will magically sign up.

Here’s the truth: If you can have a good conversation, you can sell. Sales is simply about helping the right people make a decision that already feels good to them. You don’t need a script—you need a system that feels natural.

That’s where the A.P.O.C. Method comes in, a structure I teach my coaching clients that transforms awkward conversations into confident, client-converting ones.

Let’s break it down 👇🏿

Attention. Start the Conversation Before It Starts

The biggest reason people don’t make sales? They’re not having enough real conversations with potential clients.

You can’t convert what you don’t attract. So first, we need to get eyes on you, and not just any eyes.

The right ones.

Try this:

• Build a Lead Magnet Funnel: Something simple, a checklist, a short guide, a mini masterclass. Pair it with a landing page to collect emails. Boom, you’re now having conversations in their inbox 24/7.
• Follow Up from Networking: Met someone at an event or online? Send a message like: “Hey, loved our chat about [topic]. Want to carry on that conversation over coffee or Zoom?”
• Use Your Social Media Wisely: Show up consistently. Share tips. Ask questions. Be visible. And always link back to your lead magnet.
• Track Relationships in a CRM or Google Sheet: Conversations get lost in DMs, don’t let warm leads slip through the cracks.

Presentation. Speak Human, Not Script

A sales call isn’t a TED Talk. It’s a two-way conversation.

The goal? Understand what they need, and help them believe that working with you is the best next step.

Try this:

• Ditch Diary Tennis: Use Calendly (or a similar service) so people can schedule themselves in. You can even include qualifying questions or payment for a paid consultation.

• Make Your Meetings Win-Win: Arrive Curious. Ask questions that help them talk. e.g., “What’s been most frustrating for you about this?” or “What would a win look like for you?”

• Practice, but Don’t Perform: You don’t need to be slick, just clear. A few dry runs in the mirror or recording yourself can make a big difference.

• Let Them Lead: If you’re doing most of the talking… pause. Ask something open-ended. Selling is 80% listening.

Objections Aren’t Rejections, They’re Conversations

When someone says “I’m not sure,” it doesn’t mean no. It means: Help me get clear.

Confidence comes from knowing how to respond without going into panic or persuasion mode.

Try this:

Expect Objections: If your offer is valuable, people will think carefully before saying yes. That’s a good thing.

Bring Up Common Worries First: “You might be wondering if you really have time for this right now…” You’ve just made their inner thought feel safe to speak.

Tell Real Stories: Share client wins that match their concerns. “I had a client who also worried about X—but she took the leap, and here’s what happened.”

Stay Calm and Curious: If they push back, ask: “What’s holding you back from moving forward right now?” and listen.

Conversion. Asking for the Sale Without Feeling Gross

This is the part people avoid. But here’s the deal. You’re not “closing a deal.” You’re inviting someone to make a decision.

The more natural and confident you are here, the easier it is for them to say yes.

Try this:

• Test Their Readiness: Ask, “What would need to happen for this to feel like a yes for you?”
• State Your Price With Clarity, Then Pause: Silence is a powerful tool. Let them process. You don’t need to fill the space.
• Give Them a Choice, Not Pressure: “Would you prefer to start with X or Y?” or “Does this feel like something that would support you right now?”
• Detach from the Outcome: You’re offering support, not begging for approval. Your offer is strong, and if they’re ready, they’ll know it.

Final Thought

If you’re not making enough sales, chances are you’re not having enough meaningful conversations.

The A.P.O.C. method helps you do both, with confidence.

When selling becomes a natural extension of serving, it no longer feels awkward, it feels aligned.

Want help making your next sales convo feel natural (and actually fun)?

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